Using Sex Toys When Pregnant

Every pregnancy is different, so you need to talk to your doctor about what kind of sexual activity you can engage in during pregnancy. The good news is that most women will find that they’re able to use sensual aids throughout all three trimesters without having to feel concerned about their pregnancy. If you keep a few simple considerations in mind, you’ll have a full sensual life, including sex toy fun, for the duration of your pregnancy.

The most important consideration is that you don’t introduce any object into your vagina that’s not completely sterile. Introduction of bacteria can be incredibly detrimental to fetal health and development, so always be sure that the sensual aids you’re using are clean, sterile, and safe for use.

A question that comes up for many pregnant women is whether or not it’s safe to use vibrators during pregnancy. The answer is a qualified yes—the vibration isn’t intense enough to put your pregnancy at risk, but late in your pregnancy, if your doctor advises against penetrative sex, only use the vibrator on your clitoris or nipples. You might find that the vibrator provides an additional rush during nipple play while you’re pregnant; your nipples become extremely sensitive during this time and the sensations might give you a rush that’s more intense than any nipple play you’ve ever experienced.

This might be an opportune time to explore the sensual possibilities of Ben Wa balls and vaginal barbells. Not only will you discover a world of erotic pleasure with these sensual accessories, but your pubococcygeal muscles will strengthen through your use of these toys, and your pelvic floor will be in much better shape to hold up under the rigors of labor and delivery.

Pregnancy doesn’t mean you have to endure a nine month time out from sexual activity. As long as you’re in good health and experiencing no complications, your sensual accessories can be safely used to allow you to enjoy the fullness of your sexuality. Enjoy this special time to the fullest.